Divine Self Love Coach
From Homeless, Hopeless, and Lost to Divinely Whole. If there is one thing I knew how to be by the time I was 5: It was everyone's best friend. Growing up in an environment filled with pain, abuse, and neglect, I adopted a persona of people-pleasing to help me survive.
As a child, I never knew what stability, growth, boundaries, or healthy love looked like, let alone where to find it. I only knew it existed everywhere I was not. This limiting belief led me into a downward spiral of seeking validation, love, and a feeling of acceptance from everyone but myself.
By the time I was 18, I had been depressed, suicidal, and lost for more years than I could count. Running from one abusive relationship to the next in hopes of finding someone who could value me more than I ever valued myself. If there was one thing that proved true in all of those past relationships is that I had unconsciously created the same dynamics of abuse I had witnessed between my mother and father as a child.
And top it all off, at 20, I was pregnant and found myself giving birth to my second child by the age of 23.
Although I had many reasons to give up, there was a faith inside of me that wanted more for my life and the lives I had created.
Without ever seeing an example of what whole and fulfilled living looked like, I did the unthinkable and gave myself permission to create it.
To create a future I was proud of while using all that I have been through as the fuel for my transformations. Because whether or not I was ready to admit it, I knew that my kids would inherit the dysfunction of my life without ever asking for it if I did not make a conscious choice to change it. Within 11 months of giving birth to my second child, I applied for government assistance, left another abusive relationship, and moved into temporary, transitional housing. At this point, although we were considered homeless, we were at peace.
From this place of peace and our temporary apartment, all I had was hope and a dream. And that was more than enough.
Waking up each day in the reality of poverty with two kids did something to my soul that nothing else before it ever did: sending me into the arms of a therapist who would become my life-long mentor and into a world that now felt like a blank canvas.
For the first time in my life, I started to uncover and remove limiting beliefs, perceptions, and habits. I was no longer in search of anyone to love me because, after years of therapy, intentional transformations, and Deep Healing, I finally found my way back home to me. To a love that is so Divine that only that which is from the Divine can rest in it.
After realizing where I was, it dawned on me that I was never not loved, only years of being covered in abuse and limiting beliefs altered my perceptions to make it seem that way. As I continue to live in this space, it is also from this realm that I have dedicated my life to guiding others to the path of Divine self-love.
If this is resonating with your heart because you know what it’s like to be lost, know that you are not alone. Everything you need is already within – and I am here to help you uncover your deepest truths and fully know the Divine Self-Love you’ve been searching for.
I have a deep sense of gratitude that I was able to find my way back home and become the best version of myself and I want that for you, too. Learn how to experience a Deep Transformational Healing with me as your guide by clicking here.
Words cannot explain how my life has truly changed while working with Reba. Talk about a LIFE TRANSFORMATION! Reba showed me how to speak to areas of my life that I didn’t even know existed. Working with Reba I learned how to speak to the wounded little girl inside of me. I learned how to sit down and have coffee with my fears, while manifesting the dreams and goals I see not only for myself, but for my son as well! For the first time in life I am beyond excited for my future and I have Reba to thank for that!! Meeting and working with Reba has been one of the best things that has happened to me in life Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Reba for EVERYTHING.
As I walked through life I couldn’t help but feel as though I was missing something and that I’ll regret how I spent my time if I did not make changes for the betterment of my career, future endeavors, and life experiences. When I saw that Reba was offering a course based in self-love transformations and spirituality, I decided to apply, because somewhere inside I knew it was time. From the moment I met Reba, I felt like I belonged to something greater than myself. I also enjoyed the way the course was organized and the grace she held for us all while facilitating our conversations. She knows exactly how to guide others toward a path of self-realization and self-love. Through her teachings, I realized what I was missing and why I constantly feared that I wouldn’t be prepared for the next big step in my life. Having a space to work through traumas, insecurities, and pain with no judgment has done wonders for my soul. The way I perceive myself in the world and process emotions has not only been altered but the way I see myself going through the next seasons of my life has been forever affected as well. I am better able to handle life because now, I walk in my worthiness with confidence. Thanks Reba!!
When I first heard about Reba's transformational course, I enrolled because of the context of the word “transform”. From the moment I walked in I knew that this would be not only the best, but one of the most impactful courses I have ever taken. The empowerment and inspiration combined was all I needed to realize that I AM capable of conquering anything I set my mind to. With every opportunity she had, she would show us how by following really simple steps and very simple ways of thinking and manifestings we could achieve amazing outcomes. With spirituality principles, Reba managed not only to change our lives, but also to touch or hearts in the way that we became like sisters. Every week I felt anew, as if I was seeing the world through a different lens. And without fail, every week I looked forward to the next session so I could find
another valuable lesson. Thanks to Reba's guidance, I am now a better mother, friend, sister, daughter, and soul. This was truly one of the best experiences of my life and one of the most valuable lessons I have ever received. Reba has an amazing personality and a huge heart. She taught us not only how to work with our energy to feel better about our life
and life's circumstances, but she also taught us how to empower others into becoming the best version of themselves. This class was filled with emotions, good vibes, great thoughts and new opportunities for all of us. Reba is not only a great leader but also family. Moving forward, I would like to give back to the universe because now I realize that it has given so much to me.